Butterscotch Blondies

Butterscotch Blondies

This recipe is a result of good blog reading.  I love Hannah’s blog – don’t know her personally, but I’ve been a fan of her blog for a few years now.  She is a creative photographer, thinker, and baker.  I wanted to bake something for our Singles Gathering at Providence the other night, so this is what I came up with.  If you like butterscotch – these are dangerous.  I had to get them out of my house and clean the bowl real quick so I wouldn’t lick it clean!

Makes 9×13 pan

2 cups flour

2 tsp baking powder

1/2 tsp soda

1/2 tsp salt

2 c brown sugar

2 sticks unsalted butter, melted, slightly cooled

2 tsp vanilla

2 eggs

1 (heaping) cup butterscotch chips

Mix dry.  Melt butter.  Stir together butter, brown sugar, eggs, and vanilla.  Combine with dry.  Fold in butterscotch chips.  Line pan with foil and spray.  Dump in batter.  Bake at 350 for 30-35 minutes.  Let cool for about an hour and cut.  Best when served warm in my opinion.

Book Review: Total Church (Timmis/Chester)

Book Review: Total Church (Timmis/Chester)

I had a friend in the ministry tell me, “I wish every pastor would have to read Total Church.”  That should give this book on practical ecclesiology merit in its own right.  I don’t know if I would go as far as to say that – but I can definitely see its usefulness for ministry team discussions and personal wrestling with ecclesiology.

Timmis and Chester come from many years of pastoral and church planting ministry in the UK.  That is what gives them credibility to write a book such as this.  Their goal in writing is simple: how to be the church as a we – not an I – and how the gospel must shape that model.

The best part about this book is you almost have to engage it and think and process for this book to do  you any good.  They have designed it well that way; it is full of thought-provoking ideas. 

The thing that is most difficult in this book is the UK slant.  Yes, the church is the church is the church.  But, the church will look different in different cultures.  The examples from The Crowded House they use may not necessarily transfer to church in American culture – or in a non-Acts 29 church.

I think this book would best be read by 1) a ministry team in a local church.  We just read through it as a ministry team at my church and we had good conversation on many aspects of this book and how we could incorpate/improve in many areas.  2) by a ministry student who is studying and then preparing to do full-time ministry.  It is important to know and understand why you have the ecclesiology you hold to.  If you don’t like multi-site, cell group, family integrated, seeker friendly, traditional SS model, etc – you should know why.  You should definitely be able to articulute what is important to you in the life of a church.  This book will help you clarify that belief.

Where God’s Word is not heard, chaos and darkness close in again.  God rules as his word is trusted and obeyed.  God is rejected when his word is not trusted and not obeyed.” (p 25)  I am so grateful to be in a church where the Word of God is clearly and passionately taught at every event I go to (whether singles events, youth training events, and most definitely the worship service on Sunday). 

Few Christians are going to object to being gospel-centered, just as no one is against mothers or apple pie.  The problem is the gap between our rhetoric and the reality of our practice.  The continual challenge for us is to apply this principle to church life and ministry without compromise.” (33)

The UK (USA) will never be reached until we create open, authentic, learning and praying communities that are focused on making whole-life disciples who live and share the Gospel wherever they relate to people in their daily lives.  We need non-full-time leaders who can model whole-life, gospel-centered, missional living.  This means creating church cultures in which we see normal, celebrating day-to-day gospel living in the secular world and discussions of how we can use our daily routines for the gospel.” (37)

God is at the center of the gospel word.  Yet much evangelism tends to place people in that position.  The gospel becomes skewed toward me and how Jesus meets my needs.” (55)

We need to be communities of love.  And we need to be seen to be communities of love.  People need to encounter the church as a network of relationships rather than a meeting you attend or a place you enter.” (59)  Based on some recent conversations, perception is reality – for those people.  We need to always strive to be reaching out to people – whether they look like they have it all together or not.  People need people. 

The best thing we can do for the poor is offer them a place of welcome and community.  People are often unaware of how much the culture of their church is shaped by their social class.  Someone at the door of a church, for example, may hand a newcomer a hymnbook, a Bible, service guide, or bulletin with a small and greeting without realizing how intimidating these can be to someone from a nonliterate culture.  The social activities to which the poor are invited, the decision-making processes of teh church, the unwritten dress codes, the style of teaching can all be alien to the marginalized.” (81).   We take the culture of our church for granted.  Would the poor feel welcome in a upper-class church?  Would a traditional person feel welcome in a Acts 29/modern church?  It goes both ways.  And we always need to be aware of people who may not look like us – to make them feel just as welcome and to care for them.

We have a simple rule of thumb in our church: if we do this as a family, we can do it as a church; if we would not do this as a family, why do it as a church?” (190).  Baptism and Lord’s Supper – two ordinances Scripture gives the church – not the family.  Acts 2 – clearly evidenced in both.  Children and Youth Ministry – how most churches operate – is there a place for those ministries in Total Church churches?

This book is thought-provoking.  Read through it critically.

Taste of Durham: Mez

Taste of Durham: Mez

Love Mexican.  It ranks up there with my fave foods.  Can you go wrong (yes, you can, just let me tell you, bad Mexican is not good)?  But, Mez is not one of them.  This restaurant had been highly recommended to me – and it is owned by the same restaurant group that owns others I’ve loved (518 West, 411 West, Squids).

Unfortunately, my first taste of this restaurant was take out, but I’m not complaining.  Its the best take out Mexican I’ve ever had.  I can’t wait to actually go to the restaurant – I know it will be so much better.  Authentic, contemporary Mexican – can it be done?  Yes.

I had carne asada tacos – in corn tortillas (I would have preferred flour, but I was told these are more authentic).  The meat wasn’t tough at all – and the gaucamole was fabulous.  A perfect sauce to the seared meat. 

You are going to pay for what you get – none of this 2$ taco thing.  But, when they taste this great – its worth the money!  I really want to go back and try everything on the menu?  Who’s up for doing that with me?

Taste of Raleigh: Lilly's Pizza

Taste of Raleigh: Lilly's Pizza

Pizza.  You don’t usually associate Raleigh as being the pizza place.  Well, Raleigh might not have great pizza – but as long as Lilly’s is in the city – we’ll have good pizza.  When so many people recommend a place, I go with reservation.  I hope it is going to be as good as everyone says, but have been let down in life with food choices of others, so I try to keep an open mind.

I was not disappointed.  I went with a bunch of girlfriends on Memorial Day night.  It is trendy, culture, eclectic place.  Not Italian by any means.  But, I loved the atmosphere.  It was raining so we couldn’t sit outside, and I am wondering still if their a/c was broken because it was very warm in there.  We arrived at 530 which was perfect because we were able to order our pizza and only had about a 10 minute wait in getting them.  After 6, the wait is more like an hour if crowded.  Note to consumer: go early!

It was hard making a choice, but room and I split one slice of their Big Star pizza: Homemade pesto, mozzarella, parmesan, gorgonzola, fontina, roasted red peppers & pistachios.  Who would have thought pistachios on a pizza would be delicious.  So so good.  Also, I got their house salad: the croutons were made of pizza dough – how good is that.  That’s a winner.  Roasted pear vinaigrette – I was in heaven with that stuff.  A dressing that I need to drink.  That good.  I tasted my friends stuffed mushrooms.  Best I’ve had.  Not too salty, so pretty to look at, and with pesto – can you go wrong?  Roasted mushrooms filled with monterey jack, pesto, grilled shrimp and bacon. Topped with fresh basil! 

So – note to self: split a slice, get a salad.  Cheap and filling and delicious (if you can choose just one slice).  Get there before 6pm.  Enjoy yourself.

Taste of Durham: Cuban Revolution

Taste of Durham: Cuban Revolution

I’m a little behind on my restaurant reviews – but here goes.

The American Tobacco district in Durham is home to some great night life, the Durham Bulls, and fabulous restaurants.  Parking is not fun, especially when there is a football game, but it is a great way to spend a Friday night with friends.

Cuban Revolution is one of those places.  The atmosphere is fun, eclectic, historical, cultural.  The wait staff are wonderful and engaging and knowledgeable.  The food – I really did love what I ordered. 

We started with sweet potato fries.  Good – but not the best I’ve had.

I ordered the Cuban salad – black beans and maduros – I fell in love.  So good.  Dressing on the side.  Who knew maduros on a salad would be so good?

We went on a night with a baseball game across thestreet, so we had a pretty lengthy wait – but it was worth it, fun nightlife atmosphere, would be fun for some dancing if they ever had any times to do that, price was reasonable, and once the game started it cleared out and ended up as a quiet evening (until the game got out).