by Kimberly | Feb 20, 2016 | Bible, Books, Kids r Readers 2, Shepherding Children
There are many sounds to motherhood. If you have been a mom for any length of time, you are quite familiar with them, and you know that they quickly change depending on your child’s age. Here are a few of mine:
- Apple chewing. Yes, I love to hear my two boys ask for a “big apple”, ask for mommy to “tut it”, and then chomp down on it. That means that are craving healthy foods and I give them enough sweets to balance it out 🙂
- Crying. We just took our younger son to the eye doctor for the first time. Come to find out he is extremely near sighted and will need glasses (just like his older brother). He is really clumsy even though he is a daredevil. (His eyesight probably has something to do with his clumsiness.) So, I know that when he falls and cries, than he is actually hurt. He has busted his gums and caused his two front teeth to be completely gray now (because they are dead with damaged nerves), yesterday he was playing instead of napping and tipped over a wooden chair in his room and almost punctured his eye. Thankful it was just the corner of his eye, and black eyes heal. He has scraped the top of his head from spinning circles on the back porch, getting dizzy, and falling over. He just loves to be crazy, but he knows when he cries mommy or daddy will come running – and usually his older brother will show great compassion on him.
- Mommy. Honestly, some times this gets old because they’ve said it 20 times in a row, whining for something they really don’t need. Any other mom our there know what I’m talking about? But today, as I was reading to my boys in the car while we ate lunch (waiting for a showing on our house to be finished), my younger said Mommy. Yes, he has said it plenty of times, but something just caught my attention this time when he said it. I’m there Mommy. I’m the one who loves them most in this world (with their daddy), and will be there for them, and play with them, and tuck them into bed at night. I pray that through my imperfect love they will come to see the perfect love for their Abba.
- Singing. Both of my boys have grown fond of singing. The two songs we know perfectly are the ABCs (finally, it was delayed in our home), and Jesus Loves Me. I’m glad the boys are learning that one in their SS class at our church. We sing it all the time. As my younger was awake at 6am this morning he was singing this. As I was getting ready to head out the door, I saw his little fingers sticking out at the bottom of the door, and heard his little voice singing.
My favorite line of Jesus Loves Me is “for the Bible tells me so.” Especially as I parent, and make mistakes, and don’t know what to do half the time, or how to balance everything that I need to balance, it is good to know that I have the perfect Word of God.
And Judah and Chelsea Smith just put out a great story book Bible for your kids (think grade school). It is more storybook (like Jesus Story Book Bible), but it tends to be more concrete and practical, making it somewhat easier for younger kids to grasp and know how to implement. This is an easy to use Bible, especially helpful to parents in leading Family Worship time in their home. Remember, as a parent, it is your responsibility to teach your kids about God, and the church’s job is to come along side you and partner together.
If you would like to win this Bible (and believe me, you do), just leave me a comment on one of the verses you are teaching to your children or one of the songs that your children are learning right now. Thanks Tommy Nelson Mommies for the Bible and the opportunity to pass it along to someone else!
by Kimberly | Feb 13, 2016 | kcreatives photography, newborn
Valentine’s Day is for rolls of soft baby skin – isn’t it? I had the wonderful privilege of visiting a sweet girlfriend a few weeks ago in North Carolina and loving on her new little valentine in her life.
When you are over due with your baby and the weather report shows ice in the forecast, especially in the south, you may start to get a little anxious. And I don’t know if it was the ice or the cookies that made the little one decide to come – but one thing I do know, baby Oliver came, and is safe, and warm, and loved, and adorable.
And let me hand it to you newborn photographers: y’all amaze me. Baby Oliver was nice and asleep until his momma took his clothes off – he was having none of it. But, I’ve also come to learn that it isn’t good to stress the parents out… Just be patient, go with what you get, plan for a long time (which I didn’t have), and love on the parents. They are the ones who have a newborn. And relationships are vital, pictures are extra!
Mom and Dad of baby Oliver – I love yall. Yall are dear to me. And I can’t wait to see yall in the Spring!
by Kimberly | Feb 12, 2016 | Books, parenting
One of the biggest delights I get as a mommy to littles is their “wow” or the “oooooh” when they see new things. Or how they exclaim “the lions” when they know we are going to the zoo. Or when my little is watching How To Train Your Dragon and he pretends he is a dinosaur breathing fire.
Their little imaginations are fantastic.
And I want to help them be adventurers with their imaginations. So, we color, and read, and watch cartoons to help them learn to see new worlds. We go to the zoo to help them learn about animals. We go to parks to play with friends who might not look exactly like us.
I want to take them to see the world…some day. But until then maybe we can just pray for missionaries who are serving Jesus around the world. And eat guacamole with the hopes of going Mexico one day (wait, that may be a dream of mine to return to the country that gives me my favorite appetizer).
The new book that Tommy Nelson sent me – just in time for Valentine’s Day – is all about you, your little love, and the many adventurers you will have. Here are some examples from the book and how you can do them in your own home or with your own little love:
“Stars shimmer in the sky” – when we leave the gym and if it is dark, we look at the sky and try to find the moon. Maybe we’ll see some stars. I want to tell them how God created all we see and he created them for his glory and our good.
“What happy paths we’ll take” – getting out and getting physical activity is not only fun but also healthy. There are several trails around our city and we like exploring them and finding sticks, rock, leaves, and bugs (I have boys, right?).
“Our friends will tag along.” – This is a great one to start insisting to your children that the friends they make will influence them. This is an important message in the Proverbs.
“We’ll look at mirrored faces” – We go to a local pond and look in the water. We waive at ourselves. This is a good point to make: our outward countenance should reflect what is in our heart. Like the songs says, I’ve got the joy joy joy joy down in my heart…”
“We’ll smell the pretty roses.” – This would be a good investment: teach your children to love on others by simple acts of kindness – like bringing flowers to widows in your neighborhood or church, or to single mothers (especially this time of year), or bring donuts! Yum. Just teach them to be a blessing to others – even with a homemade card. Some friends were watching our boys yesterday and my boys delivered homemade valentines when they returned to our house. What a sweet gesture.
“We fold our hands to pray.” – Our littler boy – when we go to pray at the dinner table, bows his head and folds his hands. That’s the cutest little clasp. But, I love it, so sweet. I pray that he will grow up to love Jesus with all his heart, even more than he loves cookies and balls.
God has a great adventure awaiting your child. Help them see it. What is something you like doing with your toddler to help them be on an adventure. Answer this question and I’ll a book to give away to one winner. Will pick it on Sunday!
by Kimberly | Feb 4, 2016 | Books, creatives
This post is not about the early Sunday School years. This post is about the craze of adult coloring books (really, made for women because I don’t know any males that would sit around and color in a coloring book – though if you are out there and you enjoy it – then by all means, continue).
Something I’ve been thinking about recently is how our minds can be so deceived. When you are binge watching a show – that may affect your ability to think rationally. The last month I’ve been watching a show called Chasing Life. I would not recommend it but that is a post for another day – but what it did to my mind was awful. The days before I left for a recent trip to visit friends I was so fearful that I was never going to see my husband or children again. And I had to convince myself that if death for me was going to happen that wknd than that was God’s better plan. (The show was all about cancer and dying and what life is all about). My mister was quick to respond to my fears with challenging me to dwell on faith and the Word of God.
So, what are you to do when all you want to do is something that doesn’t require much energy. Sit and color. The best part about coloring books is finding one filled with Scripture. What a better way to fulfill Colossians 3 and Philippians 4 then coloring hope-filled verses from the Word?
Waterbrook Press just published one called Whatever is Lovely. For me it is not only a chance to be creative but keep the creative juices flowing in my own lettering. Thanks Blogging for Books for the chance to review this one and all thoughts are my own.
by Kimberly | Feb 4, 2016 | Books
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Sometimes yall, life is a little bit crazy. Ok – sometimes life is a lot crazy. Can anyone relate?
Our lives as a little family have felt like this since we day we returned from our honeymoon. But, now we are again in an extra chaotic season of having to move and not knowing where in the world we are going. Our townhome that we’ve been renting in ATL for two years is going up for sale in oh, say, 24 days. And our lease is up the end of April. And we have two toddlers. And yeah – so there you have it. Another move. Another change.
Well, even though our lives may be chaotic, and at times our home, my life doesn’t have to be chaotic. Between lettering, photo shoots, spring break, packing, and then normal weekly activities, an early Easter, potty training – yes, life is crazy.
Shannon Upton, in her new book Building Your House, has given me great encouragement, grace, and instruction on how to be a wise mom who builds a God-centered home. (Thank you Shannon for the book, btw) When my mister and I were dating, he asked me what I thought of the verse in Proverbs that says “The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.” I just thought that meant keeping things clean.
Oh, how much I had to learn. I knew it meant other things – but didn’t realize the importance of all those little things. 4.5 years into marriage, I am realizing it even more.
Shannon gives you helpful DOABLE tips on how to keep from cluttering up your soul, your home, and your life. Prayer is the key – but prayer isn’t all. There are certain activities you must do. But, with these to -do items, she gives grace, practical tips, spiritual reasons that might be at the heart of why you need to do these things (like dealing with materialism and why you hoard possessions or idolatry or fear of man when you are too busy to do what needs to be done.)
This book can even be a great tool for new moms or women in your church because she includes a study guide – and I’ve found that being around women who will encourage me with ways to keep my home and keep my family on track is very rewarding.
On that note, I need to check on my eggs that are boiling on the stove so I can eat lunch here at 1:20pm.
