by Kimberly | Oct 9, 2015 | 31days
In our world, I don’t know if there are many things that are out there that really help us capture what true justice is. There are ministries out there who are helping recapture what justice is – fighting for the lowly, the outcast, the hurting.
Our great God has great justice for those. He is also JUST. He is right. He is perfect. Everything He does is perfectly set in that truth. There is no injustice in Him.
That is why King David knows that no matter what the Lord says in response to David’s sin, confession, and praise – God is completely right in any response He would give – even if that was no response at all.
This is absolutely helpful to know in our world brimming with injustice. Every time we watch the news, get on social media, discipline our children (that’s not fair), we are faced with injustice. Isn’t it time we look to God and know his complete perfectness and rest in that? We can come to him with all the injustice that we see and know that He is working. He is working in the world. He is working in our lives to root out injustice and entitlement in us. He is working to see His justice in the world.
Psalm 51.4
by Kimberly | Oct 8, 2015 | 31days
I love practicing hospitality. I love welcoming people in my home, and into my life. I love deep friendships. Hospitality isn’t about cooking the best food or having the most comfortable guest suite or the classic Pottery Barn magazine look everywhere.
God doesn’t need any of that to welcome sinners. We just learned that God is holy and right in all that He does.
And at the same time, God knows our sin much better than we o and He still welcomes us. He bids us come. He desires that we be near Him.
How totally cool is that? God knows the ugliness of our sin – is holy – and welcomes us through Jesus to sit with him, learn from him, be loved by him, be healed through him.
Psalm 51.3-4
Further reading: Matthew 11:28 and listen to this song
by Kimberly | Oct 8, 2015 | 31days
Sometimes, life is more important than getting a blog together. I wrote yesterday’s post yesterday in my quiet time early in the morning – but the day got in the way. I had errands to run, we went for a hike as a family, then the gym and church. I was going to do it when I got home and the boys got to bed. However, I cooked dinner for my mister and did the dishes only to find out that the garbage disposal was causing a leak. So…it was a longish night, and I didn’t wan to type it up at midnight.
So you will get two posts today on the attributes of God found in Psalm 51.
I’ve learned more about sin, confession, and repentance in the four years I’ve been married and three years of being a mommy than all 34 years of life before that.
Sin affects you and the world around you much more than you think it does. It breaks relationships and hinders community and the shalom of your life. Sin damages and sin is at war within you.
I’ve learned my first (and natural, sinful) tendency is to blame shift. Traffic. Kids’ temper tantrums. Others’ incompetence. My husband’s sin. But, sin doesn’t wait on other’s sin to be active in my heart. Sin is deadly. The Spirit is the best warrior in my life fighting against sin.
Also, I’ve learned to confess to God. Usually, I’m just a confess to the person I’ve offended type person – and that is something that needs to happen. But, I need to confess to God first. Because first and foremost my sin is against God.
But, why is that such an important thing to remember? Because God isn’t like us. He created us in his image – but He is Holy. That means he is not dwelling in sin – there is no sin anywhere in him. He can’t sin. He is perfect. He doesn’t know sin intimately like we do.
And because He is holy – He can offer the solution for our sin – which He did. Jesus was completely perfect and He became our sacrificial – holy – perfect sacrifice.
Psalm 51:4
Other: 2 Cor 5:21, 1 Peter 1.13-21
by Kimberly | Oct 6, 2015 | 31days
The mister and I were talking last night about this series I’m studying and writing. I told him about yesterday’s post on generosity and how that’s one of the traits I desire to see in both of our boys and also how I want it to define our lives as well.
Then, almost as a discouragement, I said “this side of heaven we’ll never be generous with completely pure motives.” I’m often aware of the yucky motives that fill my head and heart. There are times when these motives surprise me and discourage me – apart from Christ. I know that Christ has redeemed me and the Spirit is working to sanctify all of me. It is such a long journey.
I doubt David – when he was in the fields with the sheep – thought to himself “I’m going to be a murderer and an adulterer when I grow up.” But, that is the deceitfulness of sin. Sin settles in on every part of our lives. No part is left unaffected. David had sin in his heart and blatantly stepped over the boundaries that God had set for sexual purity and protecting life.
David also would have been familiar with the sacrificial system of the Jewish religion. HE knew of the blood that was given during the sacrifices. He knew the stained alters and the stained hands. He also know that only one person could cleanse those stains.
And he believed in One who would later come from his family who would fulfill the forever requirements of the sacrificial system and take away every rebellious act and every way our lives are scarred by the affects of the Fall.
Psalm 51:1-2
Further reading: John 1:29, Exodus 29:38-46
by Kimberly | Oct 6, 2015 | weight loss
There comes a time in every weight loss journey when setbacks happen. It is inevitable. Whether you have a celebration to go to, a vacation to happily go on (where eating may be more than your normal), or you just have an emotional day and all you want to do is eat ice cream and french fries instead of your normal healthy plates…the scale will go up at some time.
But, there is happy news on the other side…it doesn’t have to keep going up. I think that is the difference between those who are successful at keeping their weight off and continuing on their healthy journey, and those who return to an unhealthy lifestyle and let the pounds creep back on.
So, here are my tips, as I’ve had many setbacks, plateaus, and disappointing times on the scale the past 18 years.
- Don’t let the scale be your judge. I had a sweet friend of mine point out my addiction to the scale about 5 years ago. I was hopping on it every day and knew that no matter what the scale said, it was going to determine how I felt, looked, and ate that day. She invited me to know freedom from the scale (not just freedom from bondage to food), and to find my rest in my healthy journey in other more stable things: like making healthy goals, choosing healthy options, and noticing other telltale signs that I’m losing weight. The scale can be so oppressive! Don’t let it run your life!
- Don’t completely derail. If you see the scale creep up, or your favorite skinny jeans are fitting more snug than they were last week, or you just know that you’ve picked up some unhealthy habits lately – don’t continue. You can choose today to stop those unhealthy habits again before they take root. Go buy some fresh produce. Drink some green smoothies. Cut out sweets for a few days. Drink fewer diet sodas and trade them for water. I’m a comfort eater and I know that my tendency is to overeat when something goes wrong in life. My mister has been a good encouragement to me and he knows that I will feel even worse if I eat a lot. So, he encourages me to talk about it or do something else rather than eat unhealthily.
- Accountability. I think with every struggle that we have in life, accountability is something we all need. Whether it is running (find a running buddy), eating right (write down your menu and share it with a friend), spending money (share your budget with someone and have them hold you accountable to overspending). If we admit we have a problem to a friend, we can have the encouragement we need to fight through these discouraging times. Know yourself and then pick a friend accordingly. If you know that you aren’t encouraged by being yelled or belittled, than don’t pick a friend who is going to tell you how wrong you are. I’m most encouraged by people telling me how far I’ve come and giving me some healthy options than I am by people putting me down. Know yourself. Then you will be able to tell a friend what you need.
- Look back on your journey. I have a picture of my husband and I in our bathroom. It was taken last November (almost a year ago) and I was almost 30 lbs heavier than I am now. Each time I look at it, I see how far I had come from my pregnancy weight, and I see how far I’ve come to where I am now. I don’t like how I look in that picture so I know I don’t want to return to where I was then. So basically, see how far you’ve come and know that you want to keep going!
Don’t be too hard on yourself when setbacks occur. And they will. Instead, keep going!
